My marriage almost ended when my wife cornered me with her BFF and her husband about swapping or a fourway…..I knew he had been hitting on my wife for awhile and she alwasy said it was harmless flirting. Even after I said NO….he persisted…i had access to my wifes phone and tablet and I confronted his wife……They are divorced…..and thankfully my wife didnt act or We would be to. Sounds good on paper….

Sit down and have a talk with him…btw if you go for the gay stuff…you may turn him off and he may spread that info. Some people swear by threesomes or swinging…but just be careful…especially if your wife likes his cock or tongue better….many marriages dont last through things like that.

I'd say if you feel unable to talk to him about it, that's probably a sign you shouldn't bother. Have a good 3way with him anyway, and you should be able to sense whether he's open. If he isn't, have fun, than go out and someone who is down for it.

In my experience it’s better not to ask, just arrange the threesome and on the night have a few drinks and relax, at some point he’ll be fucking your wife and you can be kissing her or just watching him slide in and out, when the right moment comes just start sucking on him, if he doesn’t like it he most probably ask you to stop and continue fucking your wife... for me each time I’ve done this the guys loved it

Well that sounds amazing to me! I’d be a guy that would participate in that.

Where do you live? My wife has exactly the same fantasies.

You may not want to ask him for that. If he is straight. Then you can find a handsome bi guy to do it with. Just keep looking and you might find someone who is totally willing to fulfill your fantasy.