Polite

I would rather a guy be too polite than not. But, I do seek somewhat of a bad guy for sexual encounters because it turns me on. I do not want a good little prudish type guy to get under the sheets with.

See the first answer - bang on

Be yourself, thats what makes you "YOU"! If your not comfortable being talking dirty then dont. It may come across creepy/sleazy and then they wont want to speak to you at all.

Story of my life